If anyone knows the ups and downs of finding love on reality TV, it’s Rachel Lindsay. The former Bachelorette, who’s been through the emotional rollercoaster of the ABC dating world herself, recently dished out some spicy advice for Grant Ellis, who’s set to take the spotlight as the new Bachelor in 2025. And trust us, this advice is as candid as it gets.
Rachel Says Don’t Trust Anyone But Yourself
Chatting exclusively with PEOPLE at the Terry McMillan Presents: Forever premiere in Los Angeles on August 20, Rachel, now 39, shared her thoughts on what Grant, 30, should keep in mind as he takes on the daunting role.
Rachel was the star of the thirteenth season of The Bachelorette in 2017. She found her own love story in Bryan Abasolo, whom she married in a dazzling ceremony in 2019. But, as real-life drama often unfolds, Rachel is currently navigating a turbulent divorce from Bryan.
The couple’s split has been complicated by their lack of a prenup, leading to a hefty financial settlement so far. Rachel has been vocal about her regrets over this, but the two remain legally married as they work out the details.
Switching gears back to the Bachelor franchise, Grant’s upcoming season follows Joey Graziadei, who ended his stint engaged to Kelsey Anderson. Grant will be breaking new ground as the second Black Bachelor, following Matt James. His journey is sure to add a fresh layer of excitement to the show.
Rachel Also Had Advice For Women Everywhere
Rachel didn’t stop at just advising Grant. She also had some motivational words for women at large. “Often we compare ourselves to other people, and we think, ‘Oh, I’m not enough, or I need to be doing what that person’s doing.’ But the reality is you’re unique. You bring something different to the table every single time,” she said.
Her message? “So continue to know what it is that you want for yourself, stay in that lane and be yourself,” Rachel added. Her advice resonates deeply within Bachelor Nation, a franchise known for its dramatic twists and turns and often unrealistic expectations of romance.
With Ellis stepping into this high-profile role, Bachelor Nation will be watching closely to see if he can navigate the pressures and expectations of being the show’s leading man. The spotlight on Grant will bring fresh dynamics to the dating game and, hopefully, add a new chapter to the franchise’s storied history of love and heartbreak.
In a world where reality TV romances often feel staged, Rachel’s grounded perspective and candid advice remind us that authenticity and self-trust are crucial, both on and off the screen.
As Bachelor Nation gears up for another thrilling season, Grant’s journey promises to be a mix of excitement, drama, and perhaps a little bit of magic, all under the watchful eye of a devoted fan base that thrives on every twist and turn of the show.